In this riveting episode of the podcast, we delve into the extraordinary life of Kent Bray, a man who's known the thrill of international rugby and the high stakes world of trading with Citi. For the first time, Kent opens up about his remarkable journey, offering listeners an unprecedented glimpse into the highs and lows that have defined his path.
From the adrenaline of rugby fields across the globe to the buzzing trading floors, Kent's story is one of remarkable transition and transformation. However, amidst these achievements, he faced a formidable opponent off the field and outside the trading room: cocaine addiction. With raw honesty and striking transparency, Kent discusses the shadowy grip of substance abuse and the profound impact it had on his life and career.
Yet, at the heart of Kent's narrative is a message of hope and resilience. He shares the pivotal role of Narcotics Anonymous in his recovery journey, highlighting the power of vulnerability, the strength found in community, and the importance of open dialogue, especially with the younger generation. Kent's story is a testament to the transformative power of honesty and the support of a compassionate community in navigating the road to recovery.
Now, as a mentor and counsellor, Kent dedicates his life to guiding others through their struggles, illuminating paths to recovery and self-discovery. The episode culminates with an inspiring discussion about the Monumental Men's Group, underscoring its significant impact on fostering men's mental health and building a support network that champions honesty, transparency, and collective healing.
Join us for an unforgettable conversation with Kent Bray, whose journey reminds us that even in our darkest moments, there is hope, and a new chapter awaits those brave enough to seek it.
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Monumental is an invite-only, private network for leaders ready to challenge their status quo and grow with purpose that was Founded by Pete Hunt, the host of The Privileged Man Podcast.
Through weekly confidential pod meetings and monthly in-person events, Monumental creates a space where men connect authentically and hold each other accountable.
Here, leaders are free to drop the mask, speak openly, and move beyond isolation.
The Network empowers men to uncover their true potential, cultivate purpose, and leave meaningful legacies.
And we have a lot of fun doing it.
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Dan Priestley is regarded as one of the world's top professional speakers on business, personal branding and entrepreneurship. He is also a best-selling author of the books such as Key Person of Influence, Entrepreneur Revolution and Oversubscribed to name a few. Dan has also written for Forbes and Entrepreneur Magazines as well as being featured in multiple national and international publications.
Dan’s knowledge of Artificial Intelligence is vast and today he gives a stark warning of what it means for you, your job and your lifestyle whilst also giving you ways of getting ahead of the curve and harnessing it to your benefit.
We’re about to dive into a world where geographical boundaries are ever more blurred and the digital landscape is the new frontier for success. So, whether you're a budding entrepreneur, a seasoned professional, or just curious about the future of work, this is a conversation you don’t want to miss.
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Dr Erica Komisar is a clinical social worker, psychoanalyst, parent coach, and author with 30 years of experience. Erica is also a sought-after psychological consultant, bringing her expertise to clinics, schools, and corporations like Goldman Sachs.
Erica has written two highly influential books on parenting and is a media mainstay, appearing on CBS, ABC, FOX, and contributing to top publications like the Wall Street Journal and Washington Post. She's also a Contributing Editor at the Institute for Family Studies.
I asked Erica on because I was enamoured by her points of view on parenting. They seemed to stem from a place of common sense in what can be a confusing picture in the modern day.
So - it is fair to say that speaking with Erica was a special experience, she doesn’t hold back and I’m grateful for her plain speaking.
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Now..onto the main event.
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Welcome to episode 12 of "The Privileged Man Podcast," In this episode, we're privileged to have with us Richard Reeves. Richard, a Brit-American, studied at Oxford University and Warwick University, laying a solid foundation for his serving as director of strategy to the UK’s Deputy Prime Minister, Nick Clegg.
After a this experience Richard moved to the Brookings Institution in Washington, DC, where he still serves as a non-resident senior fellow.
Richard's 2022 book, "Of Boys and Men: Why the Modern Male Is Struggling, Why It Matters, and What to Do About It," was described as a “landmark” by The New York Times and named a book of the year by both The Economist and The New Yorker.
In short - it delves deeply into the challenges facing modern males.
In 2023, Richard founded the American Institute for Boys and Men and serves as its president. The institute stands as a beacon for raising awareness and finding effective solutions to the issues plaguing boys and men in society.
Speaking to the oracle of boys and men data was a mind blowing experience and I am sure you will find listening to Richard fascinating.
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Welcome to episode 11 of The Privileged Man podcast with Dr Joy Schaverien. Until her death in Mid 2025, Joy was a Jungian psychoanalyst, psychotherapist and supervisor.
In 2015 Joy authored the book “Boarding School Syndrome” where she described common symptoms suffered by those affected by early boarding after extensive research with ex-boarders, in psychotherapy and in semi-structured interviews.
Spending time with Joy was an enlightening experience and I am extremely grateful I spoke to her before she passed away.
Whatever your take on Boarding School - this episode is worth listening to.
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Welcome to episode 10 of The Privileged Man podcast with Sir Andrew Strauss. Straussy was a legendary England Cricket Captain becoming one of only three Englishmen to win the ashes both in England and Australia.
I start off the podcast getting in as much cricket trivia as possible before settling into a deeper conversation on how Andrew dealt with the tragically early death of his beloved wife Ruth and the legacy it ultimately and stunningly created through the Ruth Strauss Foundation.
Andrew’s openness and vulnerability to talk about his grief is remarkably courageous and I’m hugely grateful too him for coming on the podcast and modelling this type of leadership.
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Welcome to another special episode of The Privileged Man podcast with Damian Hopley MBE, a former rugby union star for London Wasps and England.
Damian or Hoppers as he’s widely known excelled in rugby from a young age, representing his schools of St Benedict and Harrow before moving onto St Andrews and Cambridge where he studied Theology, hence later on being nicknamed in the press as “the vicar of rugby”.
A versatile player, Damian's career was on the rise until injuries forced an early retirement at just 26. But his impact on the sport didn't end there.
In 1998, he founded the Rugby Players' Association, advocating for the welfare of professional rugby players in England, a contribution that earned him an MBE.
Damian’s intimate view on the world of rugby today is fascinating but much more than that I found Damian’s honesty about his own experiences vulnerable and courageous and a brilliant example for all men to follow as you will particularly find towards the end of this podcast.
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I am delighted to be in conversation with Dr Dan Poulter who has been the MP for Central Suffolk and North Ipswich since May 2010. Dan is also a psychiatrist.
Between 2012 and 2015 he was a Government health minister with responsibilities including maternity, child health, veteran’s health, NHS procurement, NHS estates, and the NHS workforce. He is currently Co-Chair of the All Party Parliamentary Group (APPG) on Global Health and a member of the Energy and Net Zero House of Commons Select Committee.
Dan has extensive knowledge and public policy expertise in health & social care, energy & climate change, agriculture, international development, public sector procurement, and drugs laws.
He still works as an NHS doctor in the field of mental health, liaison psychiatry and addictions on a part-time basis.
I really enjoyed speaking with Dan, I found him remarkably authentic and real as a Member of Parliament, and an extremely knowledgeable psychiatrist.
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In this episode we delve into the groundbreaking work of Nick Duffell, a renowned expert in the psychological impact of boarding schools.
With professional qualifications spanning systemic Family Therapy, Psychosynthesis, Psychoanalysis and Somatic Therapy, Nick has emerged as the trailblazer psychotherapist in understanding the experiences of numerous boarding school pupils.
He has authored several influential books, such as "The Making of Them" (which was endorsed by the British Medical Journal) and "Wounded Leaders,". Both these books challenge societal norms and perceptions surrounding the boarding school experience.
Of course, for this alternative view, Nick is widely challenged and criticised.
His work is based on his findings from numerous Boarding School attendees and so I ask that, however confronting you may find Nick’s viewpoint, you look at it with an open mind.
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In episode 6 of The Privileged Man Podcast we welcome Dr Phil Hopley. Phil is a Medical Doctor, Consultant Psychiatrist and is a globally recognised expert in mental health and performance. To top that off, he also walked the walk playing premiership rugby player for Wasps.
He currently holds advisory roles with a number of the UK’s leading professional service firms and the McLaren Formula 1 Race Team and has worked with countless top level sportsmen, clubs, Politicians and businessmen.
Phil’s 20 years as a medicolegal expert enables him to effectively support leaders coping with the intense media-exposed demands of high profile events including: Commons Select Committee hearings, the US Senate Committee hearings, contentious Employment Tribunals and Civil Court cases.
It’s fair to say that by the end of this podcast I was feeling that much smarter for listening too and knowing I was in the presence of one of the world’s most sort after psychiatrists.
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