The Privileged Man Podcast

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Bob Skinstad is a former Springbok captain, entrepreneur, and advocate for community-driven change. In this episode, Bob reflects on his extraordinary rugby career, which includes leading South Africa to victory in the 2007 Rugby World Cup and overcoming personal challenges like imposter syndrome.

Expect to learn:

  • Bob's most memorable rugby moments and toughest defeats.
  • How Bob tackled the pressure of leadership and anxiety early in his career.
  • His insights on building a sense of belonging and fostering resilience in teams.

Bob also discusses the role of sport as a unifying force in South Africa, his thoughts on privilege, and the lessons he hopes to pass on to the next generation. This is a captivating conversation with one of rugby’s most insightful leaders.

Timestamps

00:00 Introduction to Rugby and Personal Struggles

06:49 Memorable Moments in Rugby

11:45 The Internal Battle of Belonging

17:58 Understanding Privilege and Its Impact

24:08 Reflections on Family and Financial Legacy

30:38 Leadership and Governance Challenges

33:46 Cultural Reflections: South Africa vs. the UK

36:20 The Legacy of Apartheid and Its Impact

39:40 Celebrating Progress and Good Governance

42:31 Navigating Privilege and Responsibility

46:17 The Role of Sports in Unifying Society

48:50 The Impact of Technology on Youth

52:43 Mental Health and Community Support

57:29 Vision for a Better Future

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Kevin Ellis is the former Chairman and Senior Partner of PwC UK & Middle East.

In this conversation, Kevin reflects on his journey at PWC spanning nearly four decades.

Kevin shares insights on navigating economic uncertainty and embracing failure as a pathway to growth.

Expect to learn:

  • How Kevin prioritised mental health and work-life balance.
  • Kevin’s approach to building trust and culture in times of crisis, like the Pandemic.
  • And the lessons he drew from his family and career about resilience and leadership.

Kevin also discusses his transition into retirement, his newfound passions, and the legacy he hopes to leave, both personally and professionally.

This episode offers a rare glimpse into the mind of a leader of a Top 4 Accountancy Firm. 

Timestamps

00:00 Reflections on Leadership and Change

02:59 Navigating the Pathway to Employment

06:01 Integrity and Decision-Making in Leadership

09:11 Building Trust During Crisis

11:59 The Importance of Support Systems

15:07 Balancing Work and Family Life

17:53 Health and Well-being in Leadership

21:03 Life After Retirement: New Beginnings

23:58 Legacy and Future Aspirations

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Join host Pete Hunt as he delves into all the challenges of education with Will Turner, headmaster at Ryde School on the Isle of Wight (Pete's home Island). Pete and Will cover:

  • The dangers of social media and smartphone use for young people.
  • The future of education in the age of AI and technological advancements.
  • Proposed changes to the curriculum and assessment processes.
  • The evolution of boarding school environments and student well-being.
  • The importance of empathy and counseling in supporting students emotionally.

Will Turner brings a wealth of experience in education and school leadership. His academic journey began at a boarding school in Cambridge at the age of 15, followed by university studies in French and Italian. Will's passion for teaching emerged in his final university year, kickstarting his career at the renowned Sherborne School in Dorset.

His professional path saw him taking pivotal roles at prestigious institutions such as Harrow School, St John's School, and UWC Adriatic in Italy. His international experience includes working with students on full and partial scholarships, offering him diverse insights into varying educational environments.

Since joining Ryde School two years ago, Will has championed significant changes, including policies on smartphone use and advocating for a "dumb phone" alternative for younger students to encourage face-to-face interactions. An advocate for modernising the curriculum, he aims to integrate AI and diagnostic programs to enhance learning experiences, focusing on developing skills relevant to the workplace.

Timestamps

00:00 Introduction

00:53 Career experience/background

05:33 Will’s parents separation during GCSE year

09:04 Wished for counseling during university for support

13:26 Modern boarding schools

15:14 Boarding school experiences in mixed environments

18:39 Changes in safeguarding practices

21:07 Safe age for children to start boarding

24:47 Increased parental involvement in boarding

29:26 DVDs replacing videos

31:38 School recommending “dumb phone” for students

33:40 Lack of awareness about online dangers

38:26 Adolescence - Insecurities and embarrassing moments

41:55 AI in schools

46:23 Potential impact of VAT on school fees

49:23 Universities shifting to open book assessments

53:13 Preference for International Baccalaureate over A-levels

54:38 Call for comprehensive curriculum review for all ages

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Sir Steve Redgrave is widely considered one of the greatest Olympians of all time, having collected 5 OLYMPIC GOLD MEDALS over 5 different Olympic Games. You would expect that this kind of achievement would bring nothing but fame and glory. You can imagine my surprise to learn otherwise.

In this episode we talk about:

- Who Steve Redgrave really is.

- What motivated him.

- Why ending his Olympic career made him clinically depressed.

- What he did about it.

Curious to learn more? Find out by listening in.

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Timestamps

00:00:00 Trailer

00:01:03 Intro

00:01:25 Favorite Race

00:05:42 Biggest Rivals

00:08:27 Team Mates

00:15:09 Biggest setbacks

00:17:33 Understanding the Determination

00:23:28 Growing up

00:30:37 Other influences

00:33:32 Life after Rowing

00:38:58 Earnings as an Olympic Athlete

00:40:57 Suicide and depression after sports

00:47:35 Ageing after sports

00:49:44 Helping others as a celebrity

00:52:57 The power of community

00:57:20 Is being famous Isolating?

01:05:11 How would you like to remembered?

Richard Tice, Chairman of Reform UK, who are set to have a huge say in shaping British Politics for the next 5 years, joins us on the Podcast.

Who is Richard Tice?

What motivates him?

And can the right really be caring?

Find out by listening in....

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Sharing his personal journey and cover-ups he uncovered, Alex Renton sheds light on what he sees as the darker aspects of prestigious institutions. He discusses the crucial need for early disclosure and intervention to mitigate the lasting scars of abuse.

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Henmania has arrived on The Privileged Man Podcast!

I am delighted to dive deep into an exclusive interview with Tim Henman, the iconic former British tennis sensation.

Brace yourself for an exhilarating ride through Tim's journey, from his privileged upbringing to the exhilarating highs of his illustrious tennis career.

Discover the Tim's secrets to success and the indispensable role of a robust support system.

With riveting revelations about his experiences at Wimbledon and the transformative impact of family and mentors, Tim offers a masterclass in determination and perseverance.

But the journey doesn't end there!

Explore Tim’s experience of boarding schools, the challenges of fame, and the profound significance of community in shaping one's destiny.

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Join Pete Hunt on "The Privileged Man Podcast" for a compelling episode with Ruari Fairbairns, the innovator of the "One Year No Beer" challenge. 

In this enlightening session, Ruari recounts his own journey from an alcohol-laden lifestyle to spearheading a movement that challenges our national relationship with the bottle.

With frankness and insight, Ruari addresses the significant toll alcohol takes on both personal health and societal well-being. He sheds light on the habitual cycle of alcohol use, where brief solace quickly gives way to increased stress and complicates life’s challenges. The dialogue explores the underlying traumas that fuel compulsive behaviours and the crucial need to address these deep-rooted issues.

Discussing the damage caused by suppressed emotions and the catharsis of emotional release, Ruari champions the vital role of equipping children with the skills to process their emotions constructively. 

His thoughts on self-regulation and achieving balance are punctuated by a personal anecdote of his inspiring encounter with Richard Branson, highlighting the transformative potential of a balanced life.

This episode goes beyond mere abstinence from alcohol; it's a clarion call to revolutionise our engagements with it. Emphasising community, connection, and regaining control, this conversation is a must-listen for anyone questioning their drinking habits or seeking camaraderie on a sober journey. 

Tune in for a trove of personal revelations and societal insights with Ruari Fairbairns on "The Privileged Man Podcast."

Takeaways

  • Alcohol is a toxic substance that has significant negative effects on health and society.
  • There is a growing shift in attitudes towards alcohol, with an increasing demand for alcohol-free alternatives.
  • Alcohol use often starts as a way to have fun and socialise, but it can quickly become a compulsion and negatively impact various areas of life.
  • Trauma plays a significant role in driving compulsive behaviour and should be addressed in alcohol recovery. Unfelt emotions from childhood can become toxic if not addressed, leading to compulsive behaviour and various health issues.
  • Releasing past emotions and understanding patterns can be transformative in changing our relationship with alcohol.
  • Helping children feel their emotions is crucial for creating a healthier society.
  • Control is a complex journey, and it is important to find a balance that works for each individual.

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In this riveting episode of the podcast, we delve into the extraordinary life of Kent Bray, a man who's known the thrill of international rugby and the high stakes world of trading with Citi. For the first time, Kent opens up about his remarkable journey, offering listeners an unprecedented glimpse into the highs and lows that have defined his path.

From the adrenaline of rugby fields across the globe to the buzzing trading floors, Kent's story is one of remarkable transition and transformation. However, amidst these achievements, he faced a formidable opponent off the field and outside the trading room: cocaine addiction. With raw honesty and striking transparency, Kent discusses the shadowy grip of substance abuse and the profound impact it had on his life and career.

Yet, at the heart of Kent's narrative is a message of hope and resilience. He shares the pivotal role of Narcotics Anonymous in his recovery journey, highlighting the power of vulnerability, the strength found in community, and the importance of open dialogue, especially with the younger generation. Kent's story is a testament to the transformative power of honesty and the support of a compassionate community in navigating the road to recovery.

Now, as a mentor and counsellor, Kent dedicates his life to guiding others through their struggles, illuminating paths to recovery and self-discovery. The episode culminates with an inspiring discussion about the Monumental Men's Group, underscoring its significant impact on fostering men's mental health and building a support network that champions honesty, transparency, and collective healing.

Join us for an unforgettable conversation with Kent Bray, whose journey reminds us that even in our darkest moments, there is hope, and a new chapter awaits those brave enough to seek it.

Takeaways

  • Community and support are crucial in the recovery process.
  • Seeking help early can prevent further damage and pain.
  • Friendship and connection are essential for personal growth and healing.
  • The Monumental Men's Group provides a safe space for men to share their challenges and find support.

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Monumental is an invite-only, private network for leaders ready to challenge their status quo and grow with purpose that was Founded by Pete Hunt, the host of The Privileged Man Podcast.

Through weekly confidential pod meetings and monthly in-person events, Monumental creates a space where men connect authentically and hold each other accountable.

Here, leaders are free to drop the mask, speak openly, and move beyond isolation.

The Network empowers men to uncover their true potential, cultivate purpose, and leave meaningful legacies.

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Dan Priestley is regarded as one of the world's top professional speakers on business, personal branding and entrepreneurship. He is also a best-selling author of the books such as Key Person of Influence, Entrepreneur Revolution and Oversubscribed to name a few. Dan has also written for Forbes and Entrepreneur Magazines as well as being featured in multiple national and international publications.

Dan’s knowledge of Artificial Intelligence is vast and today he gives a stark warning of what it means for you, your job and your lifestyle whilst also giving you ways of getting ahead of the curve and harnessing it to your benefit.  

We’re about to dive into a world where geographical boundaries are ever more blurred and the digital landscape is the new frontier for success. So, whether you're a budding entrepreneur, a seasoned professional, or just curious about the future of work, this is a conversation you don’t want to miss. 

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